This blog goes out to all you girls/women out there who can't figure out why you're boyfriends/husbands don't stay with you or find it hard to like you. You're probably being a bitch. Maybe I'm wrong about some of you, but I couldn't tell you how many times I've seen girls just be straight up bitches to their boyfriends, or just guys in general. Ive been in a relationship for 3 years now (8/30/06), and over these past 3 years I've learned a lot about how relationships work and when its okay or not to be a bitch.
Lesson #1: LET THE LITTLE THINGS GO. Don't waste your time staying mad about a minor thing that your man did that you didn't like. Even if it WAS wrong of him to do what he did. LET IT GO. You waste time and cause too much drama holding on to it. If you just forget about it and move on... it'll feel like it never happened. It's just not worth it. BELIEVE ME.
Lesson #2: Stop nagging and complaining. I'll admit... I was once somebody who complained all the time, and my boyfriend got annoyed with me every time I complained. I don't blame him. Nobody likes to be around somebody who is unhappy about everything and constantly complaining. It's not fun. And nagging... nobody likes to hear about what they're not doing right all the time...or whatever... just don't nag. Talk about that stuff with your friends, or keep it to yourself or something.
Lesson #3: If you get into an argument with your man... just drop it. Again, your wasting time when you keep at it. Arguing SUCKS! Avoid arguing... is it really worth the fight? I wouldn't think so, especially if you're arguing over something really stupid. Please, save yourself the headache, and say "okay honey, you're right." Whether you really think they're right or not... just say it. Men like knowing they're right and having the last word. It might suck letting them win, but just don't think about it. It'll be worth it in the end.
Lesson #4: Do nice things. You don't have to do EVERY thing, or go out and buy them stuff all the time. Just be nice... offer a back rub or get them a drink or cook something. As much as we think guys should do everything for us, its okay to do things for them too. They really like it.
That is all the advice I have for now. Hope it was useful.
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Luckily I'm always right so it isn't hard for you to let me win the argument. =D
ReplyDeleteRofl. JK. It is good advice though, and you should know, you've been through it all.
This is pretty much how I feel about every day life. Just let things go, no sense in making the proverbial mountain out of a mole hill.
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